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About parties, drinking alcohol, drugs: today’s youth from the christian girl’s perspective



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Apparently, I won’t say anything wrong if I say: you, girls are the member of the Z generation or you were born even later then we, Z generation-girls. What is the main point of the Z generation?
„Generation Z or Gen Z (also known as iGeneration or iGen and Post-Millennials) is the demographic cohort after the Millennials (Generation Y). Currently, there are numerous additional competing names used in connection with them in the media. There are no precise dates for when this cohort starts or ends, but demographers and researchers typically use the mid-1990s to mid-2000s as starting birth years. At the present time, there is little consensus regarding ending birth years.
Most of Generation Z have used the Internet since a young age, and they are generally comfortable with technology and with interacting on social media.”(from the Wikipedia)

So, we have this membership with Z generation. What tod o with it? I tryed to figure out.
Unfortunately, with the appearance of the social media platforms more and more young girls (and boys as well) want to fit in the society in a wrong way. They want to be like the stars from Hollywood, or like the social media influencers. With this „fit-in-the-society-pressure” goes that the youth begins to consumate earlier and earlier alcohol and drugs, or to go to parties.
We could ask: what’s the wrong with it? And we can answer as well: everything. Alcohol and drugs are bad to the health. Being up all night doesn’t make you better and healthier either.
Why do young people go to parties then? They think, they will be cool, and they want a membership in a party-squad with they can be popular. And why do they want these things? These things are coming from everywhere: from the Internet, from their friends and classmates, and in the worst situation from their parents. „You have to be popular, you have to be cool, if you aren’t, you are a looser.” And honestly: who want to be a looser?
What can we, christians do? There aren’t anything against alchol in the Bible. There aren’t anything against drugs and parties in the Bible. But among the 7 major sin, we can find the avidity, which passes, if somebody drinks to much alcohol. And drugs and party-lifestyle go against our health which is in every spiritual mirror we look thrugh before every confession.
In my opinion, these are totally understandable: Jesus wants the best for us, for every people. He knows that to much alcohol makes our livers bust, and drugs make the worst to our hearts. He wants to give us a long and happy life which is not available living a lifestyle like this.
Besides I have to mention that these young people are under 18/21 years so they couldn’t have been served in the pubs or shops. And this can a non-religious person understand too: doing something against the low can’t be good.
I personally hate going to clubs to have a party, or drink to much alcohol. I feel myself uncomfortable, and the noise bothers me all the time. I like drinking alcohol, because I like its taste. But what’s the reason for drinking as much as you can in short time-periode? Only being cool. And that’s not okay. I’ve always prefered to have a slumber party with my closest friends than going to the pub or club. I can recommend you as well: find the 2-3-4 people who are similar to you, who have the same notion of life, the same faith in Jesus Christ. And pray for them, if you can’t find them yet. God will hear you, and notices your pray.
What to do if you want to go to a party or to a pub with friends?
Firstly: there is nothing wrong with you, if you want to go there. It’s natural, you want ot be with your friends, you want to try every interesting thing which you can. But I listed there some good advices, you can follow if you go to party.
👉Go there always with friends who you can trust in! It’s very important, beacuse you can help each other.
 👉 If you are under 18/21, don’t drink alcohol! Don’t forget: it’s against the low! Try algohol-free beers or alcohol-free coctails!
👉 If you have a good relationship with your parents, talk to them, if they may let you try alcohol at home first, so you can learn about yourself, which amount of alcohol you can bear.
 👉Don’t drink too much alcohol and don’t get drunk! It’s disgusting, and you don’t want to wake up in the next morning in a modd you can’t remember to the last night.
 👉Don’t go away with boys! Maybe you want a boyfriend – but in such a way?
 👉Tell to your parents where you go – if there is an emergency situation there is no better then knowing you can call your parents.
 👉 Remember: you are a doughter of God, he will love you after drinking a beer as well! 😉

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I love you very much, and talk to you soon at the weekend! 😊
Kisses: Anne


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